#077: Bondage, Breath Play, and Fatal Fistings with Jay Wiseman

This week we’re speaking with author and educator Jay Wiseman. Jay has been writing on and teaching about BDSM since before kink was en vogue. We discuss his book SM101 and his journey from feeling shame and isolation about his desires to being a leader and educator in the community. Jay also shares a behind the scenes look of what it’s like to be an expert witness that works with BDSM, and we discuss his contentious views on the dangers of breath play.