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#101: A 70-Year Promise
Before Matt and Elizabeth got married, she had him promise that they’d be married for 70 years. Just like her great-grandparents.
But years later, they were in a desperate spot.
They were arguing. A...
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#100: One. Hundred. Episodes.
We’ve hit one hundred episodes! We’re celebrating this momentous occasion by highlighting a few of our hosts’ and listeners’ favorite moments. We discuss what’s changed in our lives and what you can expect in the next...
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#099: Ninety-nine Problems But a Third Ain’t One
How do you tell a mono partner you want to be poly? How much should you tell your partners about each other? How can you navigate sharing a community with your ex? In this live episode of the TOF podcast, we answer 13...
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#098: Headed in Different Directions
You and your partner don’t have the same vision of the future. It seems like you’re headed in different directions. Now what?
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#097: Topping for Femmes with Shay Tiziano
In this episode, Cassie and Shay Tiziano reflect on the tribulations and rewards of topping as a femme. They discuss their stories, how femme tops are viewed in the scene, thoughts on topping larger bottoms, tips for...
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#096: COVID + Your Relationships = An Amazing Opportunity
In the current situation, there’s a HUGE opportunity hidden in this crisis. A chance to make your relationships better than they’ve ever been. In this episode, we break down why this is the perfect time to build an...
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#095: Trans and Empowered with Cassie Brighter
In this episode, we’re talking with writer and educator Cassie Brighter about trans issues, her story, common myths, transitioning, coming out, and much more.
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#094: Overcoming Impossible Relationship Challenges
Every week we talk with polyamorous folks who believe their relationship is doomed because they’re facing an insurmountable challenge. But they can’t see past the challenge to the real problem: they’ve set themselves...
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#093: Poly Baby: Week One
Our little one has arrived! In this episode, we sit down with Amanda to debrief our poly birthing experience. We talk about the birth itself, how the hospital staff reacted to our unique family, and what our first...
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#092: How to Vanquish Jealousy
You know jealousy is toxic. And every "expert" out there has tips on how to overcome it. So why are you still struggling? Simple. There are two distinct types of jealousy, but people only ever talk about one of them....
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#091: The Baby Episode
Our poly family is having a baby! Which may not surprise you. In fact, dozens of our listeners already picked up that Cassie was pregnant, and they had a few questions. In this very special episode, Amanda joins us to...
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#090: Same Shit, Different Year
If you’re like a lot of people, you made a resolution to improve your relationships this year. We’re 3 weeks into 2020. How’s that going? Has anything gotten better? Have things gotten WORSE? In this episode, we...
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