Touch of Flavor | Relationships Outside the Box

Touch of Flavor | Relationships Outside the Box

Hosted by: Cassie Fuller and Rigel

Relationship advice for polyamorous and kinky folks

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#089: Please help me squirt again!

Is it “undomly” to eat submissive pussy? Why do (some) women like degradation? Are there ways to be happy as a secondary when you’ve lost your primary relationship? What should you do when you’ve broken up with your...
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#088: Ten Poly Secrets We Learned In 2019

We spend hours each day coaching polyamorous folks on how to stop fighting, fall back in love, and build amazing relationships. We learn something new about polyamorous relationships every single day. In fact, there...
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#087: Where did the spark go?

The most frequent complaint we hear from polyamorous folks is that they feel disconnected in their relationship. But there’s good news. Not only can you get that spark back. But you can get back to a place where...
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#086: Pick up Play with Stefanos and Shay

Do you wish you could walk into a dungeon and negotiate a scene with a sexy human you’ve never met before? In this episode, experienced playsluts Shay and Stefanos reveal how to pick up a new partner and keep them...
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#085: What’s Worse In a relationship? Screaming? Or Silence?

We all know that a classically bad relationship is loud — full of screaming, crying, slammed doors, and emotional breakdowns. But did you know that silence can be just as dangerous? In this episode, we reveal when the...
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#084: Pony Play with Tromper and Handler Jenn

In this episode, we’re talking with Tromper and Handler Jenn, the 2020 North American Pony/Trainer titleholders. The topic? Pony play of course! We talk about what pony play is, why it’s something you might enjoy, and...
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#083: Ultimatums, Quality Time, and The Problem With OPP

When you’re poly (and kinky), do you have to watch your partner get it on? How do you tell your partner “it’s them or me?” How do you handle submissives who are on their period? Do Cassie and Rigel have an OPP (one...
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#082: Are We Incompatible?

When you’re feeling incompatible, how do you find solutions and create agreements that leave all parties happy, healthy, and fulfilled? And how do you know when you’re truly incompatible, and when there’s an answer...
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#081: We Don’t Actually Hate Therapists, But Here’s What You Should Know

Some people hear us talk about therapy and assume we hate therapists. That's not true. But who you go to for help with your relationships really matters. Sometimes a good therapist is the answer. But there are other...
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#080: Dirty Talk, Soft D**ks, and Jealous Partners

What should you do when you are no longer physically attracted to your long-time partner? When should you tell a date about your kinks? What does it mean when you’ve agreed to an open relationship but your partner...
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#079: But Polyamory Is Hard!

In this episode, we talk about the myth that poly is easy and the potential harm that it can do to partners trying to work their way through a challenging time. We also give you some resources and ideas on how to...
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#078: Sex and Fairytales with Dr. Jeana Jorgensen

Folklorist and sex educator Dr. Jeana Jorgensen joins the show to discuss how folklore shapes our views of sex, gender, and relationships. We discuss what folklore is, the difference between myth, legend, and...
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