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#077: Bondage, Breath Play, and Fatal Fistings with Jay Wiseman
This week we’re speaking with author and educator Jay Wiseman. Jay has been writing on and teaching about BDSM since before kink was en vogue. We discuss his book SM101 and his journey from feeling shame and isolation...
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#076: What It Really Takes To Save A Relationship
Saving a relationship takes a LOT of work and time. But effort alone won’t heal a struggling relationship. Here's the two specific things it takes to turn things around and get your relationships to a better place...
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#075: Dyad Time: More Awesome, Less Suck
Today we’re talking about dyad time: the time set aside for just one partner. Dyad time is vital to keeping your relationships healthy (regardless of your configuration). But when you’re polyamorous scheduling quality...
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#074: Prodommes, Pride, and Poly Problems
How do you tell one of the partners in your quad that you no longer want a romantic relationship? Can you still find people to play with if you have herpes? What’s the best way for a couple to find a professional...
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#073: What (and Who) We Got Into at Camp
This episode is all about camp. We talk about the wonderful naughtiness we got into — sexing in a lightning storm, taking down a fox, a simulated drowning scene, and more. We also reply to listeners who were at camp...
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#072 Polyamory: Representation, Race, and Inclusivity with Kevin Patterson
How can we make the polyamorous community more inclusive? In this episode we’re talking with author and speaker Kevin Patterson about the representation of polyamory in the media, building community, the intersection...
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#071: Moving On and Finding Love with Alexa Martinez
In this episode, Cassie talks with sex and relationship coach Alexa Martinez about moving on and finding love after a relationship ends. Topics include overcoming grief, rebound sex, knowing when you’re ready to date...
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#070: Breaking Up When You’re Polyamorous
In our longest-ever episode, we walk you step-by-step through ending or transitioning a polyamorous relationship. We discuss how to know when it’s time to break up, choosing if you want to break up or de-escalate, how...
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#069: Constantly arguing? Here’s how to stop
Few things are more miserable than constant conflict in your relationship. In this episode, we discuss the five steps you can use to break the cycle of arguments in your relationships — starting today.
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#068: Sexy At Any Size with Cheri Hardman
On today’s episode, we’re talking with comedian and plus-size babe Cheri Hardman about body image, fat acceptance, loving yourself, finding partners, ditching shitty people, and more.
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#067: Poly Birthdays, First Loves, & Tough Times
How do you support your partners when you’re feeling down? Who should you invite to your polyamorous daughter’s surprise party? What do you do when your partner loses sexual interest in you… but not your metamours?...
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#066: Who’s Your Daddy? with Kate Sloan
One kink that intrigues —and confuses — many kinksters is the Daddy Dom / little girl dynamic. Today Cassie is talking with Kate Sloan from the Dildorks about all things DD/lg. Topics include the attraction of this...
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